Since allowing myself to reach out to others almost a year ago, I have found my community. I have found my people, my tribe! I didn’t know that I needed these people in my life until they appeared. Sadly, I had closed myself off by denying my illness was a part of me. So, I write this to you today for several reasons. One is for the people who haven’t allowed others in to their hearts. The other is to recognize and thank those that are now part of my heart. If you don’t know already, here is how I found importance in the chronic illness community.
Read my latest blog post: An Open Letter to my Ex-Doctor’s
Blogging Community
I have met so many supportive friends through the blogging world and the chronic illness community. How did I meet them? Well, one of the things that isn’t talked about much is that you HAVE to network when you start a blog. You have to follow other bloggers on social media and their blogs. This is important to not only make friends but to learn from others. There is always someone else who knows just a little more (or a lot more) than you. It benefits you to befriend bloggers for support and knowledge. I’m sorry to say, but it is rare that you are going to launch your blog and have immediate success without sharing your blog and returning the favor to other bloggers. I quite enjoy reading other bloggers articles and looking at their websites. It gives me motivation and sometimes ideas I hadn’t thought of.
Social Media Community
If blogging isn’t something you want to do, then putting yourself out there on social media is the next best thing. Of course, you need to be careful as there are predators out there and they seem to prey on women and especially those with a chronic illness. That being said, I have met the most wonderful women on social media (some men too). These people are going through exactly what I’m going through or sadly worse. They give me strength when I don’t think I have any left. Just when I’m feeling down and sorry for myself someone will post something uplifting to remind me to keep going. I treasure the chronic illness community with all my heart (you all know who you are). Honestly, there are so many I fear accidentally leaving someone out.
Awards Community
When I first started blogging I saw bloggers say they were nominated for awards like the Sunshine Blogger Award, The Versatile Blogger Award. I soon learned that these awards were given by other bloggers. It is a fun way for us to get to know each other and recognize our work. I think I have been recognized for all of them now, although I haven’t written a post for each one as I have been too sick to focus on my blog.
WEGO HEALTH Community
This last month, I learned of an organization called WEGO Health. This is an organization that you can become a member and network with other people and organizations as a patient leader providing advocacy for your community. What is a Patient Leader? A patient leader is an advocate, who knows what it takes to navigate the healthcare system. It is also an influencer who is able to reach people in a community online. Lastly, a patient leader is an expert, who is a business professional who understands things from a patient perspective. Becoming a member of WEGO Health allows you to network with other industry leaders. So, if you are looking to up your advocacy game, this is the place to do it.
**All information was obtained from the WEGO Health website.
My Road to WEGO Health Nominations
When I learned about WEGO Health I immediately put earning this award on my bucket list. I know that I am very new to the advocacy world, but it doesn’t mean my heart is any less involved. Since I was young, I always wanted to do something to change the world. This feeling is in my blood and drives my goals today. I started this 6 years ago when I went back to college to work on my psychology degree. At 44 years old my true desire is still to become a psychologist and study human behavior. However, my body has other plans for me. Don’t get me wrong, I am still working towards that goal, but I may have to take another detour.
I started FibroMomBlog to accept my illness and share myself with others. Now my blog and my mission have changed to not only make my voice heard, but for the millions of others that fight a chronic illness every day. These are the true heroes and deserve to be recognized, heard and understood. FibroMomBlog will still be producing the same quality articles as before, however now you will also learn HOW to become an advocate yourself. We will also be featuring chronic illness fighters with video interviews.
WEGO Health Endorsements
I have been nominated for the Best Kept Secret and Best in Show Blog awards. I do not know who nominated me, but I suspect. However, it means the world to me and it has pushed me to keep going with my advocacy efforts. It is not easy to keep going when you fight fibromyalgia on a daily basis, work full time, and in addition work towards a degree while building a blog and business. Like I said earlier though, my community pushes me forward. They give me the energy and support I need to get back up.
I would truly appreciate support from the chronic illness community now by endorsing both my nominations at the link below. Earning this award from my community and my readers is just the incentive I need to take myself to the next level and truly make a difference in the world.
Here is the link to endorse me: https://awards.wegohealth.com/nominees/17378
Make a Difference Today
You can make a difference in the chronic illness community as well! If you haven’t subscribed to my blog yet, please do so below so you can see when there are opportunities to help your community. I also encourage all to visit International Support Fibromyalgia Network as they not only have resources but provide advocacy opportunities as well. Gentle Hugs to all my fellow Chronic Illness Warriors!
Inna
YESSSSSS you said it all. This is very important. Thanks so much for this post 😀
Suzanne
Thank you I appreciate that.
amyharbs
I loved this post so much! It was honestly life changing for me when I first reached out into the Spoonie community and then again when I launched my blog. It’s so lovely to read someone else having the same experience! Good luck on the WEGO awards!
Suzanne
Thank you and I’m so happy you have also experienced the support.
Seeking Serenity and Harmony
This is a great post. The chronic illness blogging community has been amazing. So are you.
Suzanne
Thank you. I feel the same way about you.
Nyxinked
This is beautiful. I’ve found the same support from the MH and chronic illness community. It’s more support and encouragement than I’ve ever been used to.
Despite Pain
I totally agree about community! It really helps to ‘meet’ with people who have the same problems, conditions or interests. The chronic illness blogging community is so supportive.
Congratulations on your WEGO Health nomination. I hope you do well.
Patricia Chamberlain
This is a great post! Networking with others who have similar struggles and interests as you is so important!